Any time someone experiences a tragedy or a major change in life, it significantly affects the way they view the world and their place in it. A change that is so significant brings about all kinds of feelings - a wide range of feelings and emotions that you could never in your life have imagined... Continue Reading →
From Girl, Stop Apologizing
I am currently in the middle of reading the newest of Rachel Hollis's books, Girl, Stop Apologizing. As with every book that I've been reading, there are nuggets of wisdom that I want to hold on to and be able to look back at them. But in the current chapter I am reading, "Stop Asking... Continue Reading →
In Case of Emergency
This past weekend I ran another 5K. However this time, the "safe" route of the road race wasn't as safe as we all expected it to be. This time, a car was allowed to pass through the barrier near our turn around point and that driver ended up hitting another runner. It has certainly been... Continue Reading →
Keeping Perspective
Back in January I wrote about having a new perspective as I create a new life and try to learn what this new life means for me. "We" have officially hit the one year mark since the words were spoken that my husband loved someone else and he thought we should get a divorce. "We"... Continue Reading →
Speak Your Truth
In a world with millions of people, we can expect there will be billions - trillions - of differing thoughts and opinions. We have come to live in a world where people are attacked for thinking differently or have an opinion that is different from the person they are talking to. However, it is important... Continue Reading →
Never Have I Ever…
It's been just about a year since I realized that my marriage was truly over. It's been just about a year since I heard the words, "I love her...I guess we get a divorce." And during that time there have been many more realizations - revelations - that have come: Never have I ever thought... Continue Reading →
From “We” to “Me”
For almost 15 years you were in my life. For almost 15 years almost everything was "we." For almost 15 years our friends were intertwined, our lives were one. For 15 years the decisions we made were together. But you made it so that is no longer so. For the first time in almost 15... Continue Reading →
The Spiral of “What Ifs”
Any time we go through a significant change in our lives, I feel like it is human nature to start to wonder about the choices we made. I feel like we begin to question ourselves and begin to wonder "what if" as we look at our past decisions. Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com What if... Continue Reading →
KonMari Lessons
If you've been paying attention to the Internet lately, you have heard the name Marie Kondo...or you've at least seen the memes about her KonMari method and keeping the things that "spark joy" for you in your home. While there are some aspects of her tidying that people are able to poke fun at, her... Continue Reading →
Coffee: My Love Language
What is truly the way to my heart? Or at least, getting on my list of possibly, maybe being friends? Coffee!!! If anyone has ever seen me in the morning (or if I'm at work, also the afternoon), then they might have noticed that I have a coffee in hand. Today I uttered to the... Continue Reading →